What you need
1 blue candle (for authority and presence)
1 black candle (for boundaries)
1 piece of paper
a pen
a lighter or matches
Set the Intention
On the paper, write:
"My presence is firm.
My energy speaks before I do.
I am respected wherever I go."
Fold the piece of paper toward you once., anchoring that authority within yourself.
Light the Candles
Place the black candle on your left and the blue candle on your right.
Put the folder paper between them, Light the black candle first, and then the blue candle.
Say
"My energy sets the tone.
Others feel it instantly.
I am taken seriously and respected."
Visualize
Close your eyes. See yourself entering a room. Notice how people pause, straighten, listen. No fear. No dominance. Just natural authority.
Feel your posture solid. Your gaze steady.
Your presence unquestioned. This is not force. This is command.
End the Ritual
Let the candles burn for a few minutes while holding that grounded confidence.
Snuff the candles out.
Keep the folded paper in your bag or workspace to reinforce this presence daily.